{"id":252,"date":"2012-10-03T09:13:27","date_gmt":"2012-10-03T08:13:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/flrball.com\/drills\/?p=252"},"modified":"2014-07-02T19:18:08","modified_gmt":"2014-07-02T18:18:08","slug":"conflict-handling-%e2%80%93-relationship-vs-performanceresults","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flrball.com\/drills\/?p=252","title":{"rendered":"Floorball – Conflict handling \u2013 Relationship vs Performance \/ results"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s easy to sacrifice relationships, when you are only hunting for results, the same goes for conflict handling.<\/p>\n

\"Conflict<\/a><\/p>\n

On the Y-scale you have relationship and on the X-scale the performance. Depending on the size of the conflict or if you value relationship or performance higher there are some different ways to solve a conflict.<\/p>\n

Avoidance<\/strong> \u2013 If there is a minor conflict, your players will forget it soon and it will not affect the performance nor the relationship.<\/p>\n

Adjust\/accept<\/strong> \u2013 You value the relationship higher than the performance and accept to adjust and give the other part right.<\/p>\n

Compromise<\/strong> \u2013 Lose \u2013 Lose situation, none of the parts in the conflict will get their wanted solution and need to give up something. Example. A wants A as a solution B wants D as a solution, but you end up with C\u2026<\/p>\n

Bulldozer<\/strong> \u2013 You value the performance\/results higher and are ready to sacrifice the relationship, you decide!<\/p>\n

Consensus<\/strong> \u2013 Win-Win discussion, was it a misunderstanding from the beginning? Find a way to a win-win situation through guiding the dialogue.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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